refactor(coding-agent): replace AgentSessionRuntimeHost with closure-based AgentSessionRuntime

- Replace AgentSessionRuntimeHost and bootstrap abstractions with AgentSessionRuntime
- Runtime creation is now closure-based via CreateAgentSessionRuntimeFactory
- Factory closes over process-global fixed inputs, recreates cwd-bound services per effective cwd
- Session config (model, thinking, tools, scoped models) re-resolved per target cwd
- CLI resource paths resolved once at startup as absolute paths
- Swap lifecycle: teardown old, create next, apply next (hard fail on creation error)
- Unified diagnostics model (info/warning/error) for args, services, session resolution, resources
- No logging or process exits inside creation/parsing logic
- Removed session_directory support
- Removed session_switch and session_fork extension events (use session_start with reason)
- Moved package/config CLI to package-manager-cli.ts
- Fixed theme init for --resume session picker
- Fixed flaky reftable footer test (content-based polling)
- Fixed silent drop of unknown single-dash CLI flags
- Added error diagnostics for missing explicit CLI resource paths
- Updated SDK docs, examples, plans, exports, tests, changelog

fixes #2753

packages/coding-agent/src/core/settings-manager.ts

@@ -359,7 +359,8 @@ export class SettingsManager {
 		return structuredClone(this.projectSettings);
 	}
 
-	reload(): void {
+	async reload(): Promise<void> {
+		await this.writeQueue;
 		const globalLoad = SettingsManager.tryLoadFromStorage(this.storage, "global");
 		if (!globalLoad.error) {
 			this.globalSettings = globalLoad.settings;